January 17, 2018

Beloved Books

A few times a year, I will share one of my all time favorite books with you, and give a bit of why I like it so much. Some titles will be older, some not so old. Some nonfiction, some fiction.

Keep in mind, however, that I am not judging these books in a literary sense, but more in the sense that the stories touched me or the material had a lasting positive impression on me.

Regardless of the age of the book, I will do my best not to spoil it for you, in case you haven't read it yet. Especially with the fiction titles, because finding out what happens in the story is half the fun of reading it in the first place.

Here we go!

The first favorite I want to share is Dune, by Frank Herbert.

This book was first recommended to me by my dad when I was in my teens. At the time, I had no interest in it whatsoever. Stephen King was my author of choice back then.

It is only in the last five years that I decided to give it a look. And while the story is a slow burn style, it held me in thrall from the first page to the last.

There's something almost mystical about Dune. I can't articulate it, but it has stayed with me. Perhaps it is this quote:

"I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."

Perhaps you've seen it referenced elsewhere. All I know is that as someone who lives with anxiety, it was empowering. I go back to this book, and specifically this quote, often.

Have you read Dune? What did you think? Please don't spoil it for others!

Ice, Ice, Baby

Wondering why I didn't post yesterday?

This happened:

Yesterday early afternoon
Last night, about 8 p.m.





















It doesn't look like much if you live in an area that gets sleet and snow every winter. But in southwest Louisiana, it only happens every five to ten years. Years.

Sure, we will get cold snaps. But to put it in perspective, last year our temperatures dipped below freezing three times. A total of five days. All winter.

Needless to say, having this weather (our second snow in six weeks, no less) was a big distraction.

Are you staying warm? Or is it summer where you are?

January 15, 2018

Tired

Today was supposed to be productive. However, it certainly didn’t go as planned. 

First, I’m nursing a broken toe. It had an unfortunate encounter with my husband’s weight bench yesterday afternoon. 

Then, our recently widowed neighbor called on me to help her with things. Of course, I went. That ended up taking much longer than anticipated. 

I only just found time to write this. 

Tomorrow will be better. Even if we are expecting ice and snow. I have every reason to sit home and work. 

How was your day?

January 12, 2018

Week in Review

This week has been such a rollercoaster. While I'm glad it's over, it has ended on a high note.

Up

Monday was quiet and calm. My husband and I attended a meeting about him umpiring high school baseball. He decided maybe next year.

Down
roller coaster up and down
rollercoaster


However, Tuesday, we learned the sad news about our neighbor's suicide. That news kind of engulfed the remainder of the week. Between house sitting for the widow so she could run all the tragically necessary errand and spending time at the funeral home, it has been exhausting. Still, I'm glad we are able to be good neighbors.

Today was the funeral. A sad day.

Now, everyone tries to settle into a new normal. For us, it will much easier, but for her, it will take a long time. At 60 years old and after 40 years of marriage, it will be a challenge.

Up again

Still, the week did end on a high note. We received some money we have been anticipating, which means we can kick our farm plans (and others) into high gear. It's such a great feeling to have something to look forward to. Just yesterday, we were counting change to buy lunch. Today, we know we will be set for the better part of the year.

How was your week? What are you looking forward to in the next week?

January 11, 2018

Travel Thursday

I love looking through pictures of places I've been. Especially when I am feeling like I never go anywhere.

This photo was taken on the boardwalk in Ocean City, New Jersey in 2004. My ex, my daughter and I went to see his family and spent a day at the beach. It was great fun, if a little cold at the time.


My first visit to Ocean City in 1999 was the first time I had ever seen the Atlantic Ocean in person. Before that, I had never understood the appeal. Now, however, I look forward to going back.

What's a place you visited that you can't wait to return to?

January 10, 2018

#AmEditing

Today is the first day since the start of 2018 that I am actively working on my writing projects. So this will be short and sweet.

Over the course of this year, I will edit and publish at least 12 books. Most of them are nonfiction.

My first book is about truck driving as a career option. I'll be posting excerpts and looking for beta readers.

Are you writing this month? Editing?

What are you working on?

January 9, 2018

Forced Goodbyes (content warning: suicide)

Sometimes, life is surreal. And not in a good way.

We started our day off great. Got up early, exercised, had our low carb breakfast.

Then my husband got a phone call that changed the whole complexion of our day.

A neighbor, long time family friend of my husband and his father, took his own life yesterday. This man was not a teenager. To our knowledge, he was not terminally ill or suffering from any mental illnesses. He'd visited us less than a week ago.

It goes to show how little we know about the people near us. How easily someone can slide into darkness without giving any outward indication that something is wrong.

So, please, if you are struggling, please get help. Contact a suicide hotline. Talk to a trusted friend. It doesn't matter. But you do matter. And you need to stick around. The world needs your voice. Your weirdness. Your fears. Your ideas. All of it.

And if you are not struggling, please watch out for those who are. Learn the signs to watch for. Be sincere and listen when you ask how someone is doing. It only takes moments to completely change the direction of another person's life. So let the people in your life know that you see them and that they matter.

Below are a few hotlines if you need them or want to pass them on:

U.S.: 1-800-273-8255

Argentina: +5402234930430

Australia: 131114

Austria: 017133374

Belgium: 106

Botswana: 3911270

Brazil: 212339191

Canada: 5147234000 (Montreal); 18662773553 (outside Montreal)

Croatia: 014833888

Denmark: +4570201201

Egypt: 7621602

Finland: 010 195 202

France: 0145394000

Germany: 08001810771

Holland: 09000767

Hong Kong: +852 2382 0000

India: 8888817666

Ireland: +4408457909090

Italy: 800860022

Japan: +810352869090

Mexico: 5255102550

New Zealand: 045861048

Norway: +4781533300

Philippines: 028969191

Poland: 5270000

Russia: 0078202577577

Spain: 914590050

South Africa: 0514445691

Sweden: 46317112400

Switzerland: 143

United Kingdom: 08457909090